This is going to be me complaining about things that I can't change. I do this a lot because I just don't understand.

Morals have come and gone between the times: one thing that used to be moral became immoral, while the immoral things become moral. There doesn't seem to be a set "right" and "wrong" for these things. This will only be according to my morals, but I believe people are more selfish these days.. and not afraid to show it anymore since everyone else is doing it. Most of the choices that we take is for "my own good" or "'my own benifit". There is no WE anymore. It's ME.

Like sex. I mean, sex.... includes having the babies.  If sex didn't include having babies, eople would do it all the time if they wanted and wouldn't have to worry about "the baby" that might come afterward. Animals mate to have babies. People mate to have babies... NOT ANYMORE. It's only for pleasure now. Only for someone's pleasure, at the very least. Is not human life important? Are "YOU" the only person that counts in this world? Why do people think only for themselves? Some people say that sex is a natural thing that people should be able to do whenever they wanted. If that was true, why do you even have birth control? Isn't that human nature to have babies as well? People also say that they are different from animals, and with birth control, can keep from overpopulating the world. Isn't abstaining a LOT easier? Cheaper as well, don't you think?  If we were actually responsible, wouldn't abstaining actually be more responsible? And to think that you can erase any sign of having sex.... you are getting away pretty lightly when you dont have the baby. But no... the baby isn't even a baby. Why do you have sex in the first place if you don't want a baby? Or.. is love supposed to have sex with it? I think there are exceptions such as death of the mother/baby. Pro Choice? How do you know what the baby wants? Why can't you let the baby choose on their own? Is marrige important anymore? Why do people get married still? Oh yeah. They could just file a divorce and leave it like that. People don't get to know each other very well... oh wait. You have to have sex to know that person so you HAVE to do it. Seriously? I hate it when people say that. Does sex need to be right just so that you can get married? 

I am sorry, but I really had to let this out. Bash me all you want. You don't even need to write to me. I deserve it, don't I? The morals of other people and of mine clash. There is alway going to be a debate about this. It might be nice to hear what other people think though because I just bashed a lot of people. I'm sorry for acting this way. I just don't understand why people don't take love so seriously anymore. I thought that ultimately, there would be a guy or a girl that you would love and get married to. There would be troubles, but you would stick to it because you are partners forever. "Only death will us part".

but its not that way. not anymore.

what can you do with them?

My boyfriend N and I have been dating for a while. Just saying, he is my first ever boyfriend!!! We spend a fair amount of time with each other and since we've been friends a long time before we started dating, we know each other. Our friends say we are perfect and so do we

But.... there is this girl. Her name shall be Karen. She was very mad when she found out that we had been dating but then decided that she would be our "best friend". She's one of those people who would fall in love with a guy until they find out that they don't love her back. Then she jumps the the next unlucky fellow. She has told me that she was asked to be engaged from her boyfriend... but then he broke it off with her soon after. She has mentioned other things that I just don't want to discusss here because... she is from a broken family. That's all I can say.

I don't know for sure yet, but there are some reasons to believe that Karen is a liar, and might have lied/exaggerated some of what she said above. She was getting some help from one of my friends to get over N and then... my friend came over to me and confided that Karen said that I once said that I didn't want to be friends with her. I was very angry. I was actually trying to be her friend and she had to repay me with telling others that I "didn't" want to be her friend?!?!

She has done more than this. She goes to my room and talks about my boy all the time... then moves on to talk about her next "victim". She is a sweet girl though. And she does want to be my friend. I just don't know how to tell her to stop talking about N. She also asks him to drive her places because she doesn't have a car.... when she could ask other people! After she gets to either text, call, do SOMETHING that has to do with him, she whisks into my room and tells a little exaggerated story about it. I kinda get worried from the "He's been calling me and we just talked and talked about this and that and this and this..." and ask him... his version: "She texts me 20 times, I text her once, she tried to call me 3 times and I ignore those... but finally call her back and talked maybe less than a minute." Kinda similar stories, eh?

She asked N to pick her up. He said okay. I'm okay with it... I guess. Not when she comes into my room afterwards and starts talking about it. I want to tell him not to... but  I don't want to look like an overjealous girlfriend.

Am I just being jealous? Do you think she is over him completely(she has told me she is looking at someone else at the moment)? I still do want to be friends with her.... but I just don't know what to say. What would you do in this situation?